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Nurturing

This page discusses the significance of markings in your eyes
which indicate gifts and issues around nurturing and loving.

Position #1: Nurturing

Body Part affected: LUNGS, CHEST

The nurturing position in the eye is located just below 3 o'clock in the left eye and just below 9 o'clock in the right eye. The left eye gives insights into nurturing from Mother or significant females in one's life, while the right eye gives insights into nurturing from Father or significant males in one's life. It is the single most important influential area of the eye in terms of personality development. This area shows how well we felt we were nurtured or unconditionally loved in our early childhood development. The quality of physical affection and guidance, as indicated in this position, greatly impacts one's participation in life.

Typical manifestation

a perceived imbalance in unconditional nurturing from parental figures in early childhood:

over-emphasis on nurturing as a reward for performance or obedience
withdrawal of nurturing as a punishment or reaction
general inability of child to obtain nurturing when wanted

Flower in Nurturing

A flower in the nurturing position in a left iris

When a flower appears in the nurturing position, it means an inadequate model or experience of nurturing, touching, or affection for the needs of the person, left eye from females, right eye from males. This could also be a lack of affection between your parents or lack of affection to you.

Possible challenges

integrating the creative parts of our life with the mental processes; for example having good ideas (mentally) and not being goal-oriented enough to follow thru on them.
using self-suffering and being a loner as a way of getting attention. This may result in pessimism or reclusiveness and a tendency to escapism
unconsciously wanting touching and affection but using body language suggesting "stay away" creating difficulty in initiating affection.
a fear of rejection or failure. This person may have been punished for touching activity early in life and therefore pulls back. Preferring to not start projects for fear that they may fail.
retards optimism about life, the willingness-to work for a goal; it can create a tendency not to follow through.

Possible gifts

by learning to step back through being told "Don't touch that" one acquires the gift of observation.
When we are taught as children "Don't touch or reach," the kinesthetic energy gets blocked in the chest and rises to the head area. This can enhance intelligence and verbal and auditory skills (the need to reach out kinesthetically has now changed to verbal or auditory touching and reaching out).

Lessons associated with a flower in nurturing

To initiate touch rather than just attracting it. Give away what we need and it returns. Learn to connect.
Unconditional love, unconditional giving, a union with people. Enjoy the kinesthetic experience of the constant flow of vitality between two extremes.

Jewel in Nurturing

A jewel in the nurturing position in a right iris

When a jewel appears in the nurturing position, it indicates the super Mom or Dad syndrome. Normally it means excessive nurturing in the sense that we were encouraged to achieve in order to get affection. The philosophy of life that normally develops is " material success and social status is the key to happiness ." The quality of love is sometimes described as conditional.

Possible challenges

using activity as a means of getting affection or attention, to gain approval by performance ('workaholism').
difficulty in being or learning stillness due to feeling a need to be active all the time.
a mother or father pushing the child to achieve what they never achieved, reinforcing a fear of social rejection.
developing an unbalanced materialistic value system.
a fear of failure or fear of losing attention - a tendency to over do from fear of not doing enough.

Possible gifts

a drive for accomplishment - motivation.
A sense of confidence and assurance that one can achieve.

Lessons associated with a jewel in nurturing:

Stillness and internal focussing and awareness.
The head needs balance with the heart, creativity and emotions.
Let go! Let someone else do it. Letting go is a knowing that all things work together for the highest good. This attitude opens the kinesthetic experience and releases one's intuition, the connection with the unconscious.

If one only has smooth streams in nurturing (no absence of fiber or darkening of fiber), then you can reasonably deduce that he has no particular issue in the area of nurturing. Social harmony, loving relationships, and initiative in accomplishment are hers to the degree they desire.

The area of nurturing has to do with our ability to bond with people, to serve people, to interact and feel interacted with. If you get into negating others in any way, you risk reducing your feelings of connection to the world and to your inner being.

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